Races, weddings and a beer with the elders…its looking up
Well I found the face book page for the Town Hall here in Albatera. Its the ayuntimento office. Its located in the center of the town square across from the church and its the place where the Padron certificate is issued; the document I need to prove I live here. I will be visting it Monday. The town hall posts all things in the town; festivals, events, races food contests etc… So now I know how to find what’s going on and can practice reading Spanish.
So turns out there is a Medieval obstacle race right here in Albatera mere steps from where I live.. Wow! I have won several medals from running obstacle races in the US like the Jailbreak, the Spartin, etc… They are so much fun running through mud and climbing things… So I went and found the route and to see if I could meet anyone setting up for Sunday morning, I wanted to volunteer. I wander to the edge of town close to the farm areas, in view of the mountains, and there is the mud pits filling up with water where the participants will climb and jump in. I see where the tires are that the participants will carry and the 50 lb jugs of water they will carry as part of the race etc… So I start walking and follow the arrows on the route, I wander over and around the farm land and have a fine walk, the views are lovely in this side of the town, I wouldn’t mind living in view of the mountains…I mety one person who was marking the trail and with broken Spanish found out the start and ending location only 5 min walk from my apartment.. That means I get to watch it in the morning cool..
Then I wander to the other side of the town and stumble on a wedding about to commence. Ahead of me on a side street is people lined up and down, and I’m wondering what’s happening. On closer inspection I see a bride and her father at the her doorway of a home waiting. Suddenly, just before coming down the stairs someone yells out and they light some kind of string that goes maybe 50 feet up the street. Suddenly firecrackers are going off two feet from where I’m standing… pop pop! the sound is deafening and I’m so close I’m afraid one will hit me… no one yelled move American! I jump back and cover my ears..
Then a final boom! and everyone claps yells,. She comes down the stairs arm and arm with her father and begins to walk down the street. The wedding party follows her and her white gown flowing as she walked…
I tentavily follow not wanting to look obvious but I was wondering why was she walking?No car to go to the church? so I cut across a couple streets, then I end up at the square by chance as I wasn’t sure where I was going. I see a huge crowd, assuming oh maybe this is the party for the bride. But I inch closer and instead I see a line of “abualas” (grandmothers) standing at little kitchens cooking with their grand kids. Its a contest called “abualachef” and the town is there filming it and everyone is watching them cook traditional Spanish food.. it was cool, I stand there and see one cooking paella, another some kind of pork foot another some kind of dessert. It was six in all..
Turns out, behind me was the big catholic church in the middle of the square, and there was the bride also! She was getting ready to go up the grand steps to the church…. It was beautiful to watch….she and her father walked up the steps as another held her long veil. Many people stopped and watched…. I felt for her, there she goes to the end of her life…. woops my inside voice slipped…
Then I watched the judges go table to table to judge the food… I wish I could have tasted some of it. But what fun, who knew things like this happen in this small town?
As the crowd thinned out I started walking for something to eat…. I meandered more north and ended up at the local “Hogas de Pensionistas” office…. where the seniors go to hang out.. it sits next to a huge park and has its own outside patio overlooking the park. Inside is their own tavern! with tapas…. but its open to the public… now thats a senior center! but I wonder do the limit alcohol to those using a walker?
So being a geriatric nurse I could not resist, I love the elders and have worked with them most of my 30 years as a nurse.. I feel at home around them… I go in and order two tapas I’ve never seen before an ensalada pescado (fish salad) and a Russian salad something that looks like it was made with lots of mayonnaise, and a nice cold Cana ( small beer from the tap.) Total cost $4.50. I sit on the patio, feel the breeze and look at the park.. An elder next to me is milking his coffee and having a smoke…. he smiles and I smile back….brides and cooking contests… not a bad day…tomorrow Ill go watch the racers and cheer them on in my broke Spanish, but isn’t “go go go! universal? We will see.
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I am a nurse, divorced, and love travel. I climb stairs with a bunch of friends and I’m the Captain of a stair team called Tower of Power. I’m also a cancer survivor. I had anal cancer and before you think something rude… I was married 21 years to a greedy controlling cold asshole. That’s why I got ass cancer. And that’s what gave me the strength to leave. Sometimes it takes near death to wake one up. Now 8 years out, here I am embarking on another change. Move to Spain, teach kids English, and travel some more. I’m not rich but I’ve saved a little to float until my pension kicks in, in a few years. That’s why I chose Spain. I can live here pretty cheap, and travel farther on less, and well have some fun finally. I’m no spring chicken,.I’m 58, and well..you never know when your pink slip on life will be handed to you. Been there done that… I’m not waiting for another one……..adios chicos and chicas
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This blog is about changing my life again. But this time, as a single, late-50s woman who has survived advanced cancer and a terrible divorce, I’m stepping into a completely new chapter. I’m moving out of the USA to do something I’ve never done before: teach English to young elementary children in Spain. As an experienced geriatric nurse who never had kids or even babysat much, this new path feels like uncharted territory.
With no Spanish under my belt, feeling too old to start learning, and questioning why I would leave the comfort of a good job and health insurance, I sit here wondering: Whose f***ing idea was this anyway? Mine, all mine. And here is my story, one painful step at a time.
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I am a nurse, divorced, and love travel. I climb stairs with a bunch of friends and I’m the Captain of a stair team called Tower of Power. I’m also a cancer survivor. I had anal cancer and before you think something rude… I was married 21 years to a greedy controlling cold asshole. That’s why I got ass cancer. And that’s what gave me the strength to leave. Sometimes it takes near death to wake one up. Now 8 years out, here I am embarking on another change. Move to Spain, teach kids English, and travel some more. I’m not rich but I’ve saved a little to float until my pension kicks in, in a few years. That’s why I chose Spain. I can live here pretty cheap, and travel farther on less, and well have some fun finally. I’m no spring chicken,.I’m 58, and well..you never know when your pink slip on life will be handed to you. Been there done that… I’m not waiting for another one……..adios chicos and chicas
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